So If I Don’t Talk To You, I’m Arrogant?
Ceddy on Aug 24 2007 at 9:28 pm
I have a friend who does not talk to a certain people so those certain people whom she does not talk to start talking shits about her, saying that she’s one arrogant bitch, she is this she is that.
I would call her a stupid bitch if she gets really sad because of those idiots, but I know she might be reading this post and she’ll go, “Hey Cedric, do you think I would give a fuck about these people?“.
True!
We cannot stop gossips, and similarly, we cannot stop anyone from NOT talking to us. There are people who really disgust us and we just don’t know how to speak to them, in Cantonese there’s a phrase - yong sui (Ugly-until-you-just-wanna-spit-on-it face) which is very useful to shut those gossipmongers’ mouth because these people hamik lanjiao also they like to talk, so if you give them a perfect reason, they will shut up because they usually can’t make gossips about themselves!
Example:
“Hey why are you being such a bitch? You only chose a few people to talk to and why am I excluded?”
“Because you’re YONG SUI. Get it? Looks like I spoke to you after all, can’t call me a bitch anymore right?”
Usually the victims of gossipmongers can choose to ignore the gossips, because they are humans too, people get bored over the same topic, it’s like today you talk about this girl is so arrogant, tomorrow you talk about her being so arrogant, the week after you STILL talk about her… The audience will go, “Shut up bitch, get something new!”
So my friend, you’re never wrong if you don’t speak to certain people. I’m like this too, some people are just unappetizing.And yes, if you wanna gossip, make sure you know what is a FACT, what is a RUMOR. Period.
Very true! Sometimes it just hard to stop people mouth :lol: Oh… I am freaking arrogant also now… :P
cedric, gossips are still bearable as it will fade as time passes. I am very annoyed when people get mad when they read my blog thou it is what i have in mind and most importantly, i am nt pointing finger at anyone..
this means i don have the right to think and to ramble..what i think also some people want to care, niabeh.. really feel like cursing man.
Chin YY: Go ahead and curse!
People are like this, we love gossiping but we can’t take it when we are being gossiped! And as for you, like I said, you can choose to ignore them, why waste your time on these people?
Wong: No no not true, you’re not arrogant. That’s just the way you are, you don’t live for those people.
so true , if you talk too much ,some people will think you are crazy , if you keep silent , some people will think ‘pa lan pei’.
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Suki: Thanks a lot! Well I can’t have cbox here because people are spamming like crazy! What to do? I’m a superstar. :P
Sun: Hinting something? :P
Don’t let this kinda of gossip bother u. IN my class ,there are one astro(’girl’) like to gossip so much. I just listen some of it..and didn’t trust anything until proven…..
Yeah , she cannot live without gossip. Some ppl cannot live without gossip. Just let them be themselves but don’t let it bother u
…. (since gossip as important as oxygen to them ) lol
ahh,gossip the love of some people’s lives. i am always being gossiped about,like i care. i don’t. say whatever they want. i think people who spreads rumors and gossips are attention seeking people.
they are so lame and they have nothing better to do.
ahahaha,yeah,i don’t speak to certain people also. no point speaking to them la. aiyoh.
perhaps i am taking it too lightly.. being nice is always not good especially when we are stepped head down..
ignoring does not seems to bring peace..
Chin: Yep! Being nice means you should get ready to let people abuse! I have the experience! Ask me lah! Aiseh!
Vingie: True! But what is it that they wanna talk about you? Being bitchy? Sluttish? Rude? Whore-look? Fuck them lar whatever you wanna portray is your business okay? Who are they to criticize you! Cibai people all.
Monk: Hahahahaha love it when you call her ASTRO! Yeah mine got CNN, BCC, TV3 whatever station lar! Damn many!
hmm… if i hate that ppl, i will go dream and kill him in my dream… wuaakkaakka…so. if i like a gal, i will go dream and ……. you know lar.. wuakkakakaka ;P
aaawww, very true about what u’ve said. People like to call me arrogant bitch lol cos I just don’t like to talk much. And it’s annoying sometimes bcos other ppl who never know you will listen from someone about you and start adding more things to that existing gossips. lol
Littlepolaris: Call you an arrogant bitch? You better get some strawberries and stuff into their damn mouths! Heheh, anyway welcome to my blog YuinYin, I’ve browsed through your blog and I find them inspirational. And all I can say is that I’m very proud to know that you’re such a strong person!
You’re so going to have a beautiful life ahead! Cheers!!!
JiNG: I know I know… Cut it right there! :P Haha
Normally those people who don’t really know me say I’m arrogant too
Why some people always expect other people to like to talk to them -_-
Because they can’t even start the conversation first! It’s like this, he might think that, “I’m not talking to him unless he talks to me.” , as for us we think that, “I’m not talking to him unless he talks to me first.”.
Thing is, we don’t have that kind of rules that says we MUST talk to everyone. That’ll land u into trouble if you start to befriend everyone, I’m just speaking from experience, I’ve gotten myself into deep shit by trusting someone so easily.