What are friends for?
Ceddy on Aug 19 2007 at 7:44 pm
I’ve some friends that very selfish. They came to you when they need you. They left you alone when they don’t need you. What kind of friends is this?
They always ask me to do that, do this, fine! I do it for them since some stuff is easily to be done. They asked me to fetch them here and there. Fine for the first time. Am I being too nice to fetch them for the first time? After the first time, they came back and asked again again and again. It is okey if I can pass that area they wanted to go. Do you think they thank me for doing this to them? HELL NO! They even asked me to fetch them back from south to north! I said NO and the next day they showed me their angry face!
If you can’t go home, is your problem! Find a way! I can’t fetch you and what the hell you angry at me? If it is only once in a while, maybe I can try to help you out but you’re not! You keep asking like I’m your driver! I should fetch you wherever you wanted to go! Who the hell are you? Did you pay me? You don’t even pay me for my petrol! At lease pay me for the parking fees sometimes we went out to the mall or makan somewhere. You’re selfish! You wanted to sit my car but you never ever do anything in return! Even if a glass of drink I’ll be happy!
What can I do with this so called friends?
erm..your title..shouldnt it be..what ARE friends for?
macam tu 1 la.. i kena before oso.. my frens owz did that, normally call me out cz i got car. Sigh~ But usually i apologise and cari reason NOT to fetch them..
One word, RUN!!!! as fast and as far as you can. You don’t need such friends. Seriously, Run!!! I don’t think there’s anything in them that deserves you to stay. Friends come and go.
sigh. we gotta learn to say NO to these ppl sometimes. or else, they will “wu seh” - treating us like some kind of tranportation slaves. hmph. anyway, just ignore them and live a happy life. (:
Ooo….that’s common….
Some “Frens” will take everything u did for them as granted.
They wont appreciate at all wan…
This remind me my ex-housemates…
me, my gf and 3 of them, we went to shopping mall to buy sth.
At 1st they are the one that suggested wanna go there buy sth cos sales, then my gf also thinking wanna have a walk so I drove…since they all dunhav car….
Usually the one who drive dunhav to pay parking (Usually lar…)
The funny thing is..I drove and they also didn’t automatic say they pay for the parking….well fine….just RM1…small money….I paid…
Then once reached home…they paid me RM0.60 and said “RM1 divided by 5.”
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Very fair…
Luckily I don’t have the friends like this. If my friends ask me to fetch them, they will feel shy and they will say thanks one. I ever fetched my friends go to their desired destination, but this only few times happen in my life.
support!!!!
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