When You Are Stuck In The Middle

SAEWEI, The Queen of Poot had taken over GOODBOYGONEBAD alongside with two other cute guys CHEEHSIEN and BENJIPAPA!!!!! *evil grins*

Okay, let’s cut the craps and start talking about some serious stuffs. Some serious stuffs that are going to make you think back what you had done before in the past that left you felt stupid for doing it. All this come from my personal experience and yeah, I’ve made a lot of mistakes that I thought was the right things to do back then but I usually ends up feeling like a fool. What I’m talking about is what happened when you are stuck in the middle be it with your best friends, siblings, parents, workmates, housemates, etc.

Imagine this –>

Your best friend come to you and start crying and telling you how bad her boyfriend had treated her. How she had been hurt by the bastard. How she swears with her life that she rather be singles for life and not give him another chance eventhough he is the only man left on earth. Bla bla bla. After hearing this, you will eventually be pissed off by how this bastard treated her.
So what do you do when your best friend is hurt? Protect her and of course seek revenge (eventhough it is clearly none of your business). You started off by calling this bastard and scolded him for being a jerk and hangs up before he tells you his side of story. Next, you go around telling everyone how bad this bastard is and even add some spices to the story so that it would sound more dramatic. After that you set up a team and named it BASTARD-BOYFRIEND-TO-HELL-TEAM and start giving him hard time everytime you see this bastard. You even go to the point of posting this bastard’s pictures online so that he will looked like a serial rapist in the Police Most Wanted List.

But what happened when after all the trouble you gone through, this best friend of yours calls you up and tell you that she had decided to give this so-called-asshole a second shot and she had never been happier after they had gone back together? You will feel like wanna bang your head to the wall. And everytime you see this so-called bastard, you may wanna wish that you had never been born. Furthermore, from being a hero for protecting your best, peoples around may start to point fingers at you for being a bitch.

So to avoid yourself from being an-unintended-bitch-to-be, the most important thing you must remember is to KEEP YOUR MOUTH SHUT and listen to whatever stories or dramas they want to share with you. Same goes to your colleagues, family etc. No matter how pissed you are, just keep yourself cool because as I said earlier.. IT IS NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS!!

Have you gone through any similar shitty situation like this?

5 Responses to “When You Are Stuck In The Middle”

  1. on 20 Aug 2007 at 2:48 pm JiNG

    LOL~!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    wei wei wei.. i got the same damn experience.. wukakakakakakakkaa… but not until tat stage lar.. today they gaduh, he pissed off, so i pissed off together with him.. say wat.. nah.. told you d, this gal not good one.. she play u one.. go find another one lar.. ” mana tau… MCB!! tomolo they come to school together holding hand somemore.. =.=” i dunno where to put my face..

  2. on 20 Aug 2007 at 3:19 pm Dexterity

    haha…

    This story of the girl n that bastard boy…
    Always happen wan la… no need bother about them wan…
    all u need to do is just listen what the girls tell u then just comfort her in yr words ok liao lo… after that ask her not to think so much and try to make her happy by bring her to some sweet place or just play some games with her… ahem… games as in ps2 or arcade stuff…

    then 80% of the girls will get back with the silly bastard even they get hurt deeply… i also dun understands why….

    ok la… my speech is done… byebye… hahaha

  3. on 20 Aug 2007 at 4:13 pm Chee Hsien

    Well done saewei!!

  4. on 20 Aug 2007 at 10:57 pm conancat

    lol… agree!! thats why i always listen only, i won’t really do anything after they tell me their stories because i don’t wanna really get involved and got pointed if anything gets sour. being a middle man really sucks, a lot. i will only advise them to go talk it out themselves, nobody can really help them really.

  5. on 21 Aug 2007 at 12:41 am JJ

    support SAE WEI!!!!!!!!!
    weeeeeeee~~~~~~~

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