WTF? Owe Us Money And Show Us Attitude?!
Ceddy on Sep 03 2008 at 2:23 pm
WTF is this! It’s like every single thing people also can bet, who’s the first to kick the ball also can bet, who will be kicked out in Olympics also can bet… Ok lah if you have reached Donald Trump’s status perhaps nobody will question your ability to bet but come on, if you have 6 kids in your house to feed, and you barely earn 1K per month… Who the fuck says you can bet?
I don’t have issues with people gambling or betting, really it’s none of my business. But it’s my business if someone borrows money from my family members and they cannot afford to pay and YET they start giving us the attitude. Fuck you and your attitude!
When you borrow money from us, you were there begging and crying, digging stories to tell, sometimes imaginary one, suddenly this kid met with an accident, suddenly your landlord wants to collect money from you already, suddenly your uncle wanna cut ties with you if you cannot borrow money to him. How come all these incidents happen altogether at the same time?
So you say “Lend me first please, I will return you next month when I got my salary.“, in these period, I’m sure we as your friends will not bug you but when next month arrived, isn’t it reasonable for us to give you a friendly reminder that you owe us the money? And what do you say to us?
Now I don’t have money, I have a life, you all want you take
What kind of fucking statement is that? Trade your rotten life with the amount of money you owe us? Sorry hor, if you go and sell your body in Love Lane, not sure you can even earn 20 bucks per month so don’t open your god damn mouth and offer your life. Talk so big to us because you know we are civilized people and we don’t use violent, let’s change the scenario, say today we are a bunch of loan sharks, are you sure you are brave enough to say this?
And if the loan sharks start helping you to paint your house in red, why the fuck do you have to make so much noise? Police la, MCA la, DAP la, Press la, what for? You and your big mouth should deserve shit like this one. How to go and sympathize you? You said you only got a life, people paint your house in red haven’t given you physical injury to you what for you make so much noise?
That’s why, you want to borrow money from us, if you cannot return, at least be polite, sometimes we have to collect the debt depending on YOUR MOOD. Hello, who is owing who now? By right we should be the one who have all kinds of mood, after all, you owe us money! How dare you tell us we are annoying you when we only remind you that it’s already the next month and you still haven’t repay us? And aren’t you supposed to be lucky? We are good people, not even loan shark who will charge interest, treat you as our friend only lend you money, now you give us shit ah?
FUCK YOU BITCH
So the next time you give us this kind of attitude, please don’t make noise if we start harassing you in a civilized way, we won’t invest on paint, we won’t hire hitman to finish your family members, we won’t inflict physical injury BUT we will constantly remind you that you owe us money, change phone number? Fine, go to your house and negotiate only ma, move house? Nah 500 bucks also you cannot afford to pay us already, how to even move?
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The morale of the story is this: No matter that person is your friend or relative, if they want money badly, learn to say NO. Unless they are investing on a proper business. Otherwise ask them to go borrow from loan shark, because since you are their friend/relative, they know you won’t be harsh on them so they can deliberately delay the payment and have the guts to tell you to fuck off. Don’t have to be so kind all the time. And remember don’t be so kaypochi and be a guarantor, you already got shits in your life, don’t have to have extra shit!
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This story is based on multiple experience from myself and my family members, we are always fed up with people who cannot return the money to us and still have to give us some attitude. If these people are polite, we don’t mind helping them but we’ve seen a lot of fucked up people that’s why I’m here to tell y’all not to borrow your friends money. And don’t be an idiot, I’m not talking about SMALL SUM ok?
Dear Cedric a.k.a BFF,
I know we’re really close but I think it’s time for you to return me the RM 34982839823 you owed me since eons ago. If you don’t return me tonight,I will splash pink and purple paint at your car. I will also decorate your phone with pink fluffy feathers.
Thank you.
Love,
Tittianna Perky -xoxo-
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Gosh, people are so impossible now a days. Borrows money and then wanna show attitude. Please, lend the person money because we pity them but in the end this happens. Crappy lor..
Scoffs *pats Cedric on the back* Don’t worry Ceddy, it’s not your fault okay.
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I agree with you. These people who is always on the news because the loan sharks harass them la, this la, that la, why the fuck do you borrow money from them? If you really need money to “start a business”, don’t start yet! Earn money by working as a car washer or something first, then only start your business! If you wanna bet, make sure you have money lah! No money wanna ikut orang bet?!! Tak malu!!!
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it happened to my mom too, & in the end, two parties are not in talking terms anymore. So never lend people money if you don’t wanna jeopardize relationship with the lender…
Wahseh so ungrateful lor! Tak guna betul this kind of people, no money some more wanna gamble. Owe people money some more dare to show face.
Anonymous Creep so just so…right! haha btw you life alot of drama la. :D
Purrpledreamer: Yeah! Not just tak guna, very lansi sammore! Yeah loh, they made it sound like we OWE them you know! LOL Yeah my life has looooaaads of drama, but isn’t this what y’all love to read?
Grace: Pity your mom, that’s why I say, if can, don’t go and lend money to anyone, for what? In the end you get nothing!
A.Creep: Exactly! Despite several news on loan sharks attacking victims, they still wanna borrow but will never sit down and think carefully how to earn a living in a proper way!
Jew: Of course it’s not my fault, I am going to tear that person apart if he dares to fuck with me! LOL
Vingie: Remember my upcoming movie - The BIMBOTIC Loanshark Bitch, featuring YOU!
omg lah~ i recently have same problem as well.
a friend of mine (now no more friend) accuse me of causing unhappiness between her and her friends. and the cause of everything? because i found out and bring her friends together that she has been borrowing money from them.
they ask her to borrow from her rich best friend. she say cannot because her best friend dunno yet. and continue to accept gifts from this rich friend.
when her friends getting more and more pissed with her. confronted her. then she all narrow it down to ME. strike me off everything.
after which, i’ve learnt that she owe many cards’ money and she gamble also. (now i dunno) i hearsay only. then i also heard this week borrow from her friend, next week she blog about her great holiday trip~ =_=”’
i told her to FUCK off liao.
pissed when money issue arises.
she also default on her payment too.
so i can totally understand wat this entry is about.
all i can say is that my life is filled with drama ppl and i’m glad she want to get out of my life. better. just in case she turn to me for money.
oh~ the reason she choose me to suffer the impact, becasue i’m the only person who did not buy insurance from her, thus not her client and she dun owe me money.
regret knowing her. but glad she’s now out of my life.
Lynn: Of course blame you lah, so that she doesn’t have to bear all the responsibilities mar, now that she is outta your life, ain’t that great?! And I tell you, mang go and bother who she borrowed from, how much she’s borrowing. You won’t get anything one! :D
My law lecturer once told us that even friends borrow money from friends, the party who borrow is supposed to return back the money on the initial agreed date/period. Even though usually the person who lent the money don’t collect interest, but by law it is compulsory to return the money borrowed plus interest. Next time whichever MF come up with “All I have is my life, take it or leave it” crap, you tell them that be prepared to receive your lawyer’s letter. Cos by hook or crook, the MF have to return you the money even if it takes his whole life time to return it!
yve: LOL it’s not really useful because normally if you lend someone money, you don’t have a written agreement with him, yes, verbal agreement can be a contract but it’s not easy to prove. So if the person hits you with “SUE LAH! Bankrupt SO WHAT?”, then you have to bite the dust loh! Not worth it, don’t use this technique!
you are so right about these people.
she blog nasty things about me liao, i told her not to delete.
she reply “i dare to write, i dare to put up, i wont delete”
just one day, she edit her post and say “i removed the orginal post not because i dare not admit what i’ve written, if you want the original copy, email me”
wtf!
anyway, i’m so glad she’s out of my friend list.
who knows if i still so close with her, she might borrow money from me also! \(@o@)/
“Now I don’t have money, I have a life, you all want you take” is so freaking cliche and drama lor! Next they will be using bankruptcy as an excuse to shove all responsibilities! Sooner or later one lar this kinda morons!
Some idiots are jus so damn thick skinned. so dignified or high up there dun be a whimper and borrow $$ in the bloody 1st place lar! Wah so angry for you manz!
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Serene: LOL thank you! Yeah I was so frustrated, but I told myself I’m a civilized person, otherwise I would just tell him, “ok you don’t need to pay.” then burn his house ady loo.
Lynn: Whooooo is that bitch??? I want to knowww!!! LOL
hi, I rilly donno y do i end up reading ur blog….am having the same problem like urs now…I’ve been lending money to my ex-bf to settle his car loan and h/p bill which he promised to pay me back. It was rilly so damn difficult to get back my hard earned money from him. I’ve been wasting so much of time, my h/p bill and sms to him just to chase back my money. He is supposed to pay me back RM5,000 (which i’ve already round it up, actual total is more than this figure) and i’ve been very flexi and lineant to him by offering an installment payback. Up to today, he only paid RM1,000 which is not even one of his car installment. And yet he got the gut to tell his new gf that he already settled all with me. Gosh! He is now either moved to another place, off his h/p and never reply to my sms anymore. I am really so disappointed and sad not because of him, but the balance of RM4,000!